- Core Values
- Be aware of you values, knowing what you stand for.
- Values drive behavior.
- Appreciating others values, different from your own.
- Congruency, espoused values and values in use.
- Creating shared awareness.
- Thinking Systemically
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See the bigger picture.
We often only see one (small) part
Seeing the connections and unintended consequences. - Structure drives behavior – Be aware of how they drive your own behavior –make better choices.
- Use iceberg as a problem solving process.
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When “stuff” happens
Notice not just events but patterns
Then look for structures and mental models driving behavior - When planning or implementing a change consider the impact of structures and mental models.
- How you think drives the results you get.
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See the bigger picture.
- Engaging Others
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Balancing high quality Advocacy with high quality Inquiry
Advocacy Inquiry State
Explain
Engage
Genuinely ListenAsk
Disclose
Seek to understand
Genuinely listen - Moving your communications down the Ladder of Inference
- Listen for conclusions or opinions.
- ask for the “data”.
- Make the steps in your reasoning visible.
- Gently ask others to do the same.
- Before you agree or disagree,check out the meanings of “blinking words”(e.g leadership,power,”isn’t working”,be successful, etc..)
- Using your Left Hand Column as a resource
- Thoughts you were thinking and feeling but not saying.
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Balancing high quality Advocacy with high quality Inquiry
Recommended Reading
| Title | Author | Summary | Comment |
|---|---|---|---|
| The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook | Peter Senge, Rick Ross, et al | Covers the ideas of the leadership challenge in more depth with further examples and tools | Not a book for reading cover to cover, but great for dipping into. |
| The Seven Habits of highly effective people | Stephen Covey | A range of excellent approaches that help us in our lives. | Worth reading just for the opening chapter. |
| Feel the fear and do it any way | Susan Jefferies | How to face the challenges in our lives and use them as opportunities to learn and grow. | An easy book to read that helps us face up to difficult situations. |
| Who moved my cheese? | Spencer Johnson | An amazing way to deal with change to your work and in your life. | Quick and easy to read. |
